Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Dreaming Of...

I saw this picture of a home office on a blog out there somewhere, I forget which one...but I had saved the picture for my "inspiration" folder...
It is an organizer's dream office. Cute and tiny too - it fits in a closet! I am totally dreaming of this becoming a reality someday. I love small spaces - and all things organization! :)

Matt and I made a headboard last night! No camera with me, boo, but I will take a picture of it once it is in place. I bought foam at the local Fred Meyer, fabric at a nearby craft place, and plywood at Lowe's. We assembled it over at our friends house that had the necessary tools: staple gun and a power saw (for cutting the plywood to correct dimensions). Matt will put posts on the back of it so that it is propped up rather than secured to the wall. It is a white fabric, and I am looking for cute buttons to put on it later. It was a fun and easy project!

We are gearing up for the weekend at home. I am thrilled to make the trip - we leave Friday afternoon and will get in late, returning on Monday as it is an off day for me (thank the Lord!).

I have a friend in labor right now and I can hardly wait to find out about her new little one, so please pray for Renee today :)

Have a great day, all!

Monday, June 28, 2010

Grateful

I had a *total* change of plans this weekend, and it was wonderful!

Matt called me at work on Friday and said that two cars full of family members had pulled up to crash for the weekend!
I did a little dance and could not wait to get home from work. My older brother Rue and his wife and kiddos and my mom had been camping all week. They had planned to do another full week of camping but needed a little break in between from the heat and to recoup.
So we had a blast! They did laundry and showers and enjoyed air conditioning while I gobbled up the time with my nephew and niece. It was delightful!
Little Dan Dan had a few bug bites but was as happy as can be - a happy little camper indeed :)
They all left Sunday mid-morning and Matt and I crashed for a nap. It was the most fun - and when everyone leaves the house is all quiet again and it made me all teary. Family is so far away...

Still, I shook it off and cleaned up from our guests afterwards. We went out and did some couponing (love those Albertson's doublers...I got salad dressing for less than .50 and lots of stock up items!). By the evening we were exhausted from all the fun this weekend. We managed to get in a 10 mile run on Saturday morning too - and while we were out, my older brother had mowed the lawn in the backyard. I think he spent 6 hours that day on our yard!!

I hope you all had a great weekend!

Friday, June 25, 2010

Friday Laughs

More fun courtesy of LOL Cats and my uncle...




I hope you all have an awesome weekend - I will be eating, running, sleeping, cooking, cleaning, couponing, laughing, reading, and smooching. Lots. ;)

Thursday, June 24, 2010

On Meal Planning


One of my favorite things about marriage is cooking for a great eater - Matt is not picky at all (well, except for raw onions and pickles - but I will take them gladly off his plate!) so I have had a lot of fun cooking for more than just myself.

When we took Financial Peace University, we learned about how to put together a grocery budget. I have been amazed that it is totally possible to eat healthy on about $50 a week in groceries. The only trade off is that you need to be able to put some time in the kitchen doing some prep on Sunday afternoons, and about 30 minutes each evening.

Many of you know that my mom is an amazing cook - she specializes in gourmet international cuisines. What few of you know is that before she retired in 2005 she mostly did baking and some occasional meals - but my dad did most of the cooking (since he did most of the grocery shopping too!). Mom found a great way to use her time by helping my dad battle pre-diabetic issues with helping in the kitchen - and now, she is a pro (and my dad is super healthy).

I found the best way for Matt and I to eat healthy and on a budget was to make a meal plan. It works with what is on sale, in season, and if any ingredients can be bought with a coupon :) When we go to the grocery store, these are the staples:

- Mixed greens (bagged spinach $1.68, head of romaine $1.48, head of cabbage $1)
- Apples (3 lbs a week, for lunches at .98 a pound)
- Avocados (two a week at .68 each - we love WinCo's prices...)
- Peppers (when on sale for less than a dollar - green ones for salads and pizza topping, reds and orange ones for salads and stir fries)
- cucumber (.58 each for salads)
- broccoli crowns (for salads, .88 per lb)
------------------------------> = about $13 for Produce

- Bulk section for rice, flours, powdered milk, oats, sugars, pastas, quinoa, falafel mix - it saves a bundle! About $2 worth of an item weekly
- raw almonds (bulk section, about $3/week for snacks in between meals)
- multigrain croutons for salads (bulk section, $1 worth - mom would tell me to make my own but these ones are cheap, and I save time and they are gooood on salads!)
- Other salad toppings (bulk section - craisins, chow mein noodles, nut bits - about $2 worth)
------------------------------> = about $8 for Bulk Section

- Pita flat bread (2.08 for 5 round pita's - we use them for pizza and paninis)
- Deli mozzerella cheese ($2.28 a lb - usually get a block for $4.00)
- Medium pitted olives, canned (.95 each - great on pizzas, salads - Matt's very favorite!)
- Can of tuna (.48 each at WinCo!)
- Almond milk ($2.68)
- Frozen chicken breast (5.99 for two weeks' worth)
-------------------------------> = about $14 for canned/packaged items

Other items that vary:
- Cereal (Matt loves to mix cereal for breakfast. We get it at less than $2 a box by using a coupon when it is on SALE. We stock up - 5+ boxes at a time if we get a good enough deal)
- Olive oil and balsalmic vinegar (for homemade vinegrette dressing)
- A special recipe ingredient if it is ON SALE: meat, seasonings, other produce, etc - we will fill up on these items until we reach our budgeted amount (we bring a calculator when we shop).
-------------------------------> = about $15 of planned miscellaneous extras
= $50 a week total in groceries

Some of our favorite coupon items are for cereal, yogurt, lunch meat, condiments, frozen extras, paper goods, and personal care items. We saved $50 by couponing in just the last month. That translates into some free food! It usually works out that we will spend $40 at WinCo and $10 "couponing" at Albertsons. I will use a coupon on an item that is on a super good deal sale.

As far as meals, here are some of our favorites:

- Salads. We have a million dressings, a little plastic tub full of fun toppings, and lots of chopped, prepped veggies handy so they are easy to throw together.
- Stir fry's. Peanut oil + sauce + a frozen bag of stir fry veggies + a protein + a grain + a nutty topping = YUM! You can mix it up with different sauces and meats.
- Panini's. They are like glorified grilled cheese sandwiches. Take bread and cheese and a protein and add grilled veggies, avocado, or spinach and grill on the Panini maker! Our favorite: tuna melts with tuna, mayo, cheese, and spinach!
- Haystacks - huge taco salads with a million toppings (greens, beans, taco meat, fajita-seasoned peppers, salsa, sour cream, avocado, tomato, tortilla chips, cheese, etc)
- Pita Pizzas - we have these every week without fail! So easy - the whole wheat flat pita bread serves as the crust, then you add pasta sauce, cheese, green pepper, chopped up spinach, and black olives. Bake at 400 degrees for 12 minutes. Easy and healthy with the light crust and tons of veggies in the toppings!
- Casseroles. These are often not terribly healthy, per se, but oh so good! Tater tot casserole, broccoli casserole, some chicken pasta ones...nom nom nom!

Some helpful tips:
- Prep veggies on Sunday afternoons. I wash and bag the greens, dice the peppers, wash fruit, and put together a salad for the evening. Prepping your own veggies saves money on pre-packaged items. I do love bagged baby spinach though. It is cheap here.
- Prep a dish to be oven ready for later in the week. I prepped a dish of chicken enchiladas to go in the oven so we could eat when we got home, hungry.
- Use the crock pot! I have had some tasty stews, soups, slow cooked meats and other goodies by using the slow cooker. Sometimes I will put all the ingredients in the night before and keep it in the fridge and then plug it in the next morning before I leave work.
- Make extra portions and freeze them for lunches. I put a frozen item in my lunchbox the night before and by meal time the next day it is nearly thawed - and it keeps my lunch cold in transit!
- Mix it up! Take a peak in cooking magazines and online recipe sites if you want to build a recipe around a specific ingredient. I love to cook with quinoa and falafel for example - so it is fun to find unique recipes.

How do you plan your meals? On the whim? Dine out?
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PS - Inkling - here was my stuffed shells recipe:

1 box cooked large pasta shells
1 jar pasta sauce

Stuffing:
1 container low fat ricotta cheese
2 cups of grated mozzarella cheese
1 cup Parmesan cheese
2 eggs
1 thawed package of diced cooked spinach
salt, parsley, basil

Mix up stuffing well and put a heaping spoonful into each shell. Layer marinara sauce on bottom of glass dish and then on top of all the shells. Top with a handful or two of grated cheese and bake at 375 until bubbly.

What are you cooking? ;)

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

Tuesday Fun

i got some cartoons from my Uncle that I had to pass on...love these...




ahhh good times :)

Some other good news:
- our treadmill is working again. It had me working at 5am this morning...thank goodness!
- I made my first ever stuffed pasta shells with spinach for dinner. It was so good and a hit all around :)
- My family is camping nearby this weekend so I will get to see them! YIPPIE!!!!

Anyone else have any good news? Happy Tuesday, all!

Monday, June 21, 2010

Blessed

Matt had a blast camping on Thursday night. Our church put on a men's camping trip for two nights, but him and Clint (pictured on the right) only went for one night - Matt because he did not want to leave me for two nights alone, and Clint has a three week old daughter. They drove together there and back. I was SO grateful they could arrange that schedule! Clint thought it was cute that Matt wanted to get home in time to shower and clean up before picking me up from the van pool lot.... and my van pool riders laughed at the little dance I did when Matt was waiting for me there Friday night. :)

What a fun weekend. Saturday we ran 17 miles! It was HARD. I was really hurting by the last few hundred yards - I should have listened to my body and walked that last part because I hurt my left foot :( I hope it heals up soon. We took it easy the rest of the day, celebrating our distance with some well deserved pizza...

Sunday was delightful. We both were up early, unable to sleep in. We had a huge breakfast and did some chores before a coffee date and errands out. The weather was nice and cool - it would have been perfect to do some work outside, but we were too sore still...and just wanted to play instead!

I felt really encouraged this weekend. We were blessed with a gift from a friend that will make a Fourth of July trip home possible, so I am SO excited for that. God is good :) It is a 3-day weekend for us, so we will make the most of it!

Please be praying for Matt this week as he tackles job searching and look into some possible school/class options. One step at a time, one day at time!

Friday, June 18, 2010

If My Life Were a Comedy...

Wooo! It's FRIDAY and that is always a cause for celebration. I wanted to say THANK YOU (so much) for all of the encouraging comments and well wishes from everyone that I received. As much as we felt it was a tough week, it was also a funny one. There are so many times that Matt and I feel like a camera must be rolling somewhere, because it is too funny to NOT be on camera.

If my life were a comedy, these are some of the "scenes" where you probably truly LOL'd:

- When Matt picked me up from the van pool drop off site on Wednesday, we were leaving when I asked how the gas gage was looking. Our car is a guzzler - the tank empties FAST - so he nervously replied, "uhh...LOW..." Matt is used to his old car that had a little warning light. Well, there was a gas station at the next intersection, thank the Lord, and we were at the light. We were also behind Super Extra Cautious Grandma Driver making a left turn. If we did not make that light, we were toast. "STEP ON IT GRANDMA!!!" was our exclamation, and we made it through, only to pull into the station and promptly RAN OUT OF GAS. Matt apologized profusely - not for running out of gas, but for running out patience. I am convinced that the best way to diffuse a stressful situation on the road is to start laughing your head off!

- I took yesterday OFF. I had all sorts of allergy issues, and I did not want to spend the day sniffling at the office. So, I stayed home and organized the guest room closet. I had the iPod on shuffle, and let's just say that there were some dance moves that only Tom Cruise would think were killer. I had fun at least!

- I also got to hold a three week old last night as I had dinner with a dear friend. She had an upset tummy so I was rocking her and as I was turning her to let her rest on my shoulder she let out the nastiest fart I have ever heard. I laughed so hard that the shaking from my laugh helped her let it all out. Hilarious!

- Matt left on an overnight camping trip with some guy friends yesterday afternoon. It was our first night apart! As soon as he left I got teary and had some chocolate pudding. I spent all of my twenties alone and away, and I get teary over Matt being gone one night?? Good thing our M&M jar was empty...that could have been bad!

- I am eating yogurt with a fork right now. That's what I get for packing my lunch half asleep.

- We have a 17 mile run tomorrow. Ha ha ho hee hee hee. We must be crazy!

I hope you all have a great weekend! Make it a great one ;)

Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Choosing Joy

Whew life throws us curve balls from time to time, doesn't it?

You know when you are in a rut, how the last thing you want to do sometimes is try to be cheerful? Well, if I could have my way this week, I would just sulk. And sleep.

I've tried to have an attitude of gratitude whenever possible, but some days it is just hard. I also can't stand when others complain and grumble, so I try to avoid to whenever possible. But I feel like I hit an emotional wall this week, so I need to grumble a little bit...
  • We decided we had to give up the summer trip to MT, and the marathon we were going to do. We realized that we simply cannot afford the trip; the costs of the entry fees, lodging, gas, car rental, and food = too much. We are trying to build our savings back up right now after all my health issues this past winter, and felt that it was not a smart stewardship of our funds right now. We did enter a contest to win our way into the San Francisco Marathon on July 25th, so we are still training in case we win the all-expense paid trip. (We find out on June 28th if we are winners or not....)
  • Matt had to cease the consulting gig. Let's just say that his business partner was not a suitable person to be working for or with. It was a tough 3 months working for him, and you can only imagine his disappointment. He is now back to job searching and has had a couple interviews, but you can imagine after 7 months of unemployment how spent he is. We are still hoping to develop a home-based business soon, but we need to save some money first to cover all of the start up costs.
  • Though I am SO SO SO grateful for my job that covers all our basic needs and keeps us insured, I really struggle with it. It is tedious work (data entry), a super long commute to only end up doing everything through the computer, and I am away from home 11 hours a day. They treat me so well, and I am really liked and appreciated. But, I am lonely there. I often eat by myself outside at lunch, and there are few folks to socialize with during the day. I am really wanting something closer to home, which is hard to find in this economy and our town...
  • Our treadmill broke. It buzzes like the incline function is stuck :( Now I have to run in 90+ degree weather...I could seriously just cry. I love to run so much.
  • I have not visited home in almost 4 months. The summer family camping trip is a week long, but I can't go because the dates include arriving on a Sunday and leaving on a Saturday. I don't have vacation time saved up yet in spite of 7 months on the job, and it is 4 1/2 hour drive away :(

Folks at church comment on how cute and cuddly Matt and I are together. It is truly a dream. He is my favorite person to spend time with and perhaps that is why it is so hard to kiss him goodbye at 6:50 in the morning and not get to kiss him again until 5:15pm. We endured a year long relationship of long distance - I am so grateful to have this life with him, here!

We choose joy daily - we choose to have a harmonious relationship instead of blaming each other for our circumstances. As Matt labors over another job application, I can offer encouragement and some humor. As I come home in tears because my work is unfulfilling and I miss home - Matt can hold me and make me laugh. We know it is temporary.

So, we are choosing joy. And, leaving our yard looking a wreck. Because there are more important and fun things to do and it is too hot outside...

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Daniel Turns 1!

What a difference a year makes...


Daniel turned ONE yesterday - my precious nephew. Happy Birthday baby Dan Dan! Wonderful photos by his awesome grandma - Kathy Hall!

(I really need to visit home soon...)

Friday, June 11, 2010

Blog Redesign!

Happy Friday everyone!

I totally let this week get away from me. And no pictures to show for it, either!

Tuesday night I had to do a driver training to become an alternate vanpool driver. It was nearly three hours, but I passed, yippie!

Wednesday we attended a BBQ at our pastor's house and there were well over 40 people there. I kicked myself for not bringing Matt's camera - there were a ton of great photo ops and an amazing sunset...

I was so exhausted by last night that we crawled into bed at 8pm with the laptop, a jar of M&M's and a couple episodes of "The Office". Season five - oh my word, we laughed SO hard (remember the fire "drill" episode? Angela's cat?)

Today I had a little break at work between assignments (I do data entry all day...) so I decided to browse the new "design" feature that Blogger has and have a little fun. I've made some tabs and still need to add links and photos and other things that I am hoping to do this weekend...

This weekend is YARD WORK. I will take photos - for Matt's folks to see!

I hope you all have a great weekend :)

Monday, June 07, 2010

7 Months!

Sunday, June 6th marked two years of dating, and one year since Matt proposed to me. We Over breakfast I read my journal entry to him of the special day - and got all choked up at the end. I love our story...

And now today marks 7 months of marriage! Time flies when you are having fun. Matt is my best friend and he lights up my life so much. He was so worth the wait I can't even begin to explain it. (Thanks, God...)

We had a full and fun weekend. The only "work" I did was three loads of laundry and childcare at church. The rest was all play play play! We are on a "The Office" kick - we are borrowing Season 5 from some friends here - and laughed a lot watching some episodes.

We took a break from our "Long Run" this weekend to allow Matt's foot to heal and break into his new shoes...so a short one on Sunday night was all we could do. I hopped on the treadmill this morning, itching to run a little. There is daylight at 5am here, so it is easy to get up...

I hope you all have/had a great Monday!

Friday, June 04, 2010

How I Feel About My To Do List

I laughed out loud when I saw this earlier in the week....

It is totally how I feel about my to do list. ;)

This weekend is only a 2-day-er for me though, the luxury of a 3-day weekend (that I had most of May!) is now over and I have to figure out how to work, play, and rest all in two days. It's all about balance, right?

Since some items on my to-do list will take a year and a few will take a couple minutes, I am going to cheat this weekend and only do the easy/fun stuff: laundry, cook, and vacuum. That's all, folks.

Tonight: date night. Tomorrow: church activities (including doing childcare, pray for us!) and rest. Sunday: celebrating TWO years of being reunited, and one year since Matt proposed. I'm hoping to play in the kitchen a bit but keep it simple.

Have a great weekend, everyone!

Wednesday, June 02, 2010

A Rainy Day...

This morning, Matt and I went on an impromptu walk at 5:15am. It was already light out, we were awake, and I was eager to stretch my legs before having to sit all day at work.

As we went to go outside, we found it was drizzling outside. We went anyway - and it was delightful.

We talked about job stuff for awhile, and it got me dreaming about a dream vacation someday. I've been working for almost 7 months straight without one, and it will be awhile before I accrue enough leave to do so.

This is my dream vacation, right now:
Bora Bora, French Polynesia...

A girl can dream, right?

Where is your dream vacation? If money were not an option?

Tuesday, June 01, 2010

June!?

Woo time does fly! What a great weekend. I still don't have a functioning camera, but as soon as I do, I will be taking a lot of photos to make up for the severe lack of them this past month...

Friday was date night - we weathered a massive rainstorm to get fixin's to make pizza at home, and watched "The Notebook". Bawled our eyes out and then stayed up until midnight talking about life. I love those kind of heart-to-hearts...

Saturday was the Long Run. We have not kept up with the daily runs as much as we would like due to our busy schedules and crazy weather - so the 15 miler was a toughie. Matt had new shoes on and they left pancake-sized blisters on one foot. Not good! We survived the run, but both of us were hurting pretty bad by the end. Again, the trick is to talk about the C's: cars, computers, cell phones...it makes time fly for Matt :) We rested up all afternoon before going to church in the evening for the Saturday night service. A game night followed, so I got to watch Matt belt out some vocals for the Rock Band game. (He's good...)

Sunday was glorious. I knew we still had Monday to play with but I was so excited to get the house clean I could've done cartwheels. Matt tackled the garage and I did different projects here and there all day. We got free tickets to see a movie in the theater, so we went to see "Iron Man 2" in the evening - since Matt watched a chick flick with me, I figured it was only fair to see a macho man movie in exchange. It had some amazing special effects. Amazing how movies are made these days...

Monday I had off - thanks to Memorial Day. We had a huge breakfast and did more house projects: gathered some items for a church yard sale, cleaned out the laundry room, did some decorating (still working on that), and ran some errands. Some dear friends of ours that just had a baby came over briefly with their week-old newborn, and I spent an hour squealing over her. They asked if we wanted to babysit tonight for a couple hours so that they could have a little date out and we jumped at the chance. I am so excited!

So it was a great weekend. This week is still a busy one, but manageable. We will be celebrating this Sunday TWO years of dating and being reunited, one year since Matt proposed and seven months of marriage! Time flies when you are having fun :)

I hope you all had a great weekend!