It has been a doozy of a week. Matt and I are adjusting to marriage while under some significant financial and vocational pressure. It is more than just financial - it is TIME.I was reading about how in your first year of marriage you need to be careful to guard your time. I feel horrible because of my commute, but it is all we have right now to work with job-wise, so what else can I do? I have to get up at 5:30 in the morning, so bedtime has to be around 9:30 (I made the connection last year that my weight loss was associated with getting exercise and GOOD SLEEP --->that is when my body processes burned body fat. When I get bad sleep, I gain weight. It is hard to be disciplined in this area because I often am not tired at 9:30!). So I have four hours in the evening with Matt. We either run or have a church/social event after dinner and clean up and then before you know it, it's time to start gearing down! WHERE does time go?
I was teary in the grocery parking lot as Matt told me about his day with business meetings and....cooking a meal for our pastor and his wife and getting to hold their newborn baby.
I burned with envy - yet, he was helping ME out. I signed up to provide the meal, and then when I realized we could not afford to get them take out, he offered to make it for me. (I would have loved to if....I had the time...).
It was payday, and we portioned out the cash for savings, giving, the DSL bill, the vanpool, groceries, his student loan payment....and then the cash was nearly gone. Gulp. Sticking to a budget is...hard. But - we are doing it. That is a good thing!
It's date night! How do you have one with no money? Well, in one city block nearby is an Applebees, our favorite grocery store (WinCo) and a $1 movie rental place. We will park in the middle and do our grocery shopping for the week together, get a $1 movie, and use a gift certificate we got in the mail last night to Applebees for dinner. I am SO excited...
Well poop.As I was writing this an air raid went off.
Did I mention that I live by a nuclear power plant? I better sign off to go inquire...
Nevertheless - have a great weekend, all!!










